Breakups, make-ups, disappointments, and disasters—nobody warned you love would be like this. After all, if every man really wants to get married, why aren’t they marrying you? And where exactly did the romance go now that Prince Charming barely pays attention to you anymore?


As it turns out, men are more unpredictable than their reputation would have you believe. It takes a lot to hold their attention, and men tend to lose interest in romantic partners when they stop being, well...interesting.


So what really goes on in the male psyche when it comes to romantic relationships? If you’ve ever wanted a peek inside the minds of real men, this is your chance. Single Man, Married Man brings together eight men from eight different worlds— single, married, engaged, and divorced—as they answer questions and share their unique insights about love and marriage.


The result is a groundbreaking look at the thoughts and feelings of a diverse group of men with answers to those burning questions you’ve never been able to ask—and surprising information that will forever transform the way you look at relationships.





“It’s very refreshing to read the viewpoints of such a variety of men.  I’m sure ladies will appreciate this book.”

- Natasha (San Francisco, CA)


“Great mix of personal experiences and applicable

advice, really enjoyed this read”

- Shirley (Greensboro, NC)



“I enjoy books that stimulate my mind, while reading Single Man Married Man I defiantly had some of those “ah ha” moments when these guys gave their opinions on some of my relationship questions.”

-Yvonne (Baltimore, MD)



"I found myself agreeing & caught myself saying 'Yes, Yes' a few times while reading some parts of this book”

- Cindy (Atlanta, GA)



“ See ladies all men don’t think alike! Book really helps you re-evaluate what it is you are really looking for in a relationship”

- Beth ( Newark, NJ)


" This groundbreaking book is a result of compiled answers and opinions from surveyed questions asked by women to single, married, and divorced men. "


Jean Alerte is an award-winning entrepreneur with a variety of work experience in the areas of marketing, management, and sales. Along with founding his company Alerte, Carter and Associates, he has produced comedy concerts and tours for acts such as Chris Tucker and Kevin Hart. He also serves as the executive director of the Unity in the Community Foundation of Brooklyn, New York where he has given out $23,000 to high school students to attend college. Originally from Port au Prince, Haiti, Alerte currently resides in Brooklyn with his wife, with whom he opened the Brooklyn Swirl frozen yogurt shop in 2012.

Rae Holliday is the co-creator and editor of the blog Stuff Fly People Like, the editor-at-large of Blue Magazine, and a content contributor to Uptown Magazine and His branding firm, The Holliday Agency, has Jay-Z and Beyonce among its top-gifting clients, and he can be seen as a regular style expert and panelist on BET’s 106 & Park.

Frank Gateau is a managing partner and vp media director for Alerte, Carter and Associates, where he produces and directs video productions and branded media for a variety of businesses and professionals. For more than a decade, he has worked with major brands in the worlds of sports, high-end fashion, and lifestyle trends—including serving as the brand ambassador for Julian Casimir Jewelry.


Jickael Bazin is the cofounder of ACA Communications, an interactive distribution and personal development firm. A divorced single parent to his daughter, Anais, he serves as a business resource consultant for the Do Right Do Good Scholarship Award and as an analyst for one of North America’s largest distribution companies.

Kel Spencer is an American Music Award-winning songwriter who has written for and with artists including Wyclef Jean, Mary J. Blige, and Will Smith. Recently accepted into the elite group of BET Music Matters artists, Spencer has penned culture writings for companies including AEON Magazine, BET, and Centric TV online, as well as a wide range of successful theme songs and commercial jingles.

Pervis Taylor III is an in-demand life coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling Pervis Principles book series. Originally signed as an actor-model to Wilhelmina Models, he has a background in the music and entertainment industries, but found his calling in caring for the souls of others. A contributor to the websites and, he is also the creator of the inspirational life coach app I-Inspire.


Zangba Thomson is the author of Three Black Boys: Tomorrow After Supper and The Hotep Brother Manuscript, as well as the coauthor of Do Right Do Good. A seasoned screenwriter, he serves as creative director at Bong Mines Entertainment, LLC, and as New York’s life coach examiner at, where he contributes a wide range of motivational articles.


Dj Fadelf, is a world traveled tour/lifestyle dj and official dj for 3x Grammy winners The Product G&B, model, songwriter and fitness trainer. Entrepreneur at heart, Fadelf is also the Owner-Operator of Luxe Sound Entertainment, a professional entertainment company that provides Djs, bands and photographers for all occa- sions ranging from celebrity & political events, down to private birthdays and sweet 16s. Fadelf has garnered guest, mix-show slots on New York’s radio stations Hot 97 and 107.5 WBLS and featured in several notable magazines and websites. As a Philanthropist, Fleet dj and Fit Radio dj it’s safe to say Dj Fadelf is a renaissance man to be watched.







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